How Do You Get a Narcissist Back Down?

How to Shutdown a Narcissist, According to 9 Experts

  1. “I hear you”
  2. Say nothing.
  3. “I trust that”
  4. “Everything is going to be okay”
  5. The best way to shut down a narcissist is to not engage with them at all and to go no contact.
  6. Validate their greatness.

How do you make a narcissist miserable?

14 Ways to Make a Narcissist Miserable:

  1. Lack of Attention.
  2. Doing something they don't like.
  3. Losing.
  4. Logic and Facts.
  5. Boundaries.
  6. Critical Thinking.
  7. Spontaneous Behavior.
  8. Someone else's Success.

Do narcissists ever back down?

As you can see from the above, many narcissists are quite willing to come back for as long as it suits their needs, while remaining oblivious to yours. If you cannot realistically envision a good future together that does not involve the narcissist suddenly becoming different, you might want to stay “discarded.”
Alexander Ross

Alexander Ross

Gaming, Esports & Interactive Media Writer

Alexander Ross has covered the video game industry for a decade, writing deep dives on game design, esports tournaments, VR developments, and gaming culture.

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