How Long Does It Take a Shy Guy to Ask You out?

As you can see, it is common to be chatting for at least a week before a guy asks them out on a date. But guys generally don't wait longer than 2 weeks. Now I'm sure if you're Googling, “How long should I wait for a guy to ask me out?” then perhaps you've been chatting to your guy for longer than 2 weeks.

Do shy guys want to be asked out?

Yeah, guys like that most likely get rejected. Sure, some guys like getting asked out right off the bat, but for a shy guy it might turn his eyes into saucers and make him run the opposite way. It can intimidate him especially, if he doesn't know you.

How do shy guys show interest?

He listens intently.

What shy guys lack in chattiness, they make up for in listening skills. They may not always be the ones leading a conversation but that doesn't mean they don't care. When he's nodding along, looking interested, or laughing at the right times, you can be sure he's invested in what you have to say.