How do you permanently delete Instagram messages?

These are the steps to deleting an entire conversation:
  1. Tap the inbox button at the top-right corner of your home screen.
  2. Choose the conversation that you want to delete. Drag it to the left.
  3. Tap Delete.

How do you delete Instagram messages on both sides?

Simply hold down your message and tap on “Unsend”. This will delete a message from both sides, so the person you send it to won’t be able to see it anymore. That’s it! The message will be deleted from both sides.