Should I Attend Viewing or Funeral?

You should attend both the wake and the funeral for family members and very close friends. If you're a member of the immediate family, people will want to express condolences to you. Even if it's difficult, being there is important.

Is it better to go to the funeral or viewing?

The short answer is, yes. It's usually just fine to attend both the wake and the funeral. Especially if the person who dies was someone you knew very well. In fact, most people would consider it the respectable thing to do.

Is it rude to not go to a funeral viewing?

Offering Comfort Outside of the Funeral

It's considered proper etiquette to pay your respects in another way if you're unable to attend the funeral. While you shouldn't feel guilty if you can't attend, you should take action to honor the deceased and their family.