What Are You Looking for in Someone?

Common attributes that come to mind include intelligence, kindness, sense of humor, attractiveness, or reliability. No matter what we think we're looking for in a partner, the people we wind up choosing don't necessarily match our criteria for an ideal companion.

How do you answer what are you looking for in a partner?

Honesty: “I want to be with someone that accepts me for who I am, and who understands that there are some things that I do not want to change.” Bluntness: “I will never change for you no matter how much you ask.” The second method is a great example of how to respond to “what are you looking for in a relationship”.

What are you looking for in a guy?

Confidence. A confident man is secure in himself and in your relationship with him. While he appreciates your support, he doesn't need validation from you. He's happy at your success and supports you in the decisions you make, making confidence one of the most important qualities to look for in a man.