What Gender Is Them?

They/them pronouns are gender-neutral. They are not explicitly or exclusively nonbinary.

How do you refer to a gender-neutral person?

If you need to refer to someone who prefers gender-neutral pronouns in a formal context, you can use the gender-neutral honorific “Mx.” If you're inviting me to your fancy dinner party, you can address the invitation to “Mx.

Is they a gender-neutral pronoun?

They/them/theirs (Shea ate their food because they were hungry.) This is a pretty common gender-neutral pronoun and it can be used in the singular. In fact, “they” was voted as the Word of the Year in 2015.

Maya Lin-Takahashi

Maya Lin-Takahashi

Consumer Tech & Gadget Reviewer

Maya is a hardware enthusiast who tests and reviews smart home devices, smartphones, wearables, and audio gear. She focuses on practical consumer value and build quality.