What Is a Backhanded Comment?

adjective [ADJ n] A backhanded compliment is a remark which seems to be an insult but could also be understood as a compliment. A backhanded compliment is also a remark which seems to be a compliment but could also be understood as an insult. Saying she's improved comes over as a backhanded compliment.

How do you respond to a backhanded comment?

  1. 5 Effective Ways to Respond to Backhanded Compliments. This is how to reply when someone offers an insult disguised as a compliment. ...
  2. Ignore it. Staying silent doesn't mean you're letting yourself get pushed around. ...
  3. Say, "Thank you." ...
  4. Acknowledge the positive portion. ...
  5. Address the insult head-on. ...
  6. Keep your sense of humor.

What are examples of backhanded compliment?

Here are 10 backhanded compliments that are actually offensive.
  • "The way you've overcome your disability is so inspiring!" ...
  • "You're so articulate!" ...
  • "You don't even look pregnant!" ...
  • "You're amazing for going back to work. ...
  • "You look great! ...
  • "Your English is so good!" ...
  • "You clean up so well!"
Marcus Vance

Marcus Vance

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Marcus Vance is a cybersecurity auditor and technology writer dedicated to educating the public about online safety, data privacy regulations, enterprise security, and emerging cyber threats.