Why Is It Better to Be Respected Than Liked?

You just have to understand that being respected is more important than being loved. Respect is also easier to obtain. You only have to hold yourself to high standards, treat people fairly, and get things done. And trust me, nothing patches over bruised egos and imagined slights like success.

Is it more important to be respected or liked?

But while being both respected and liked are possible, being liked is more important. In politics, it is clear that likability is a critical success factor. People vote for people they like. Trust, smarts, capability, similar views, experience, proven track record, and leadership are needed.

Why is it important to be respected than liked?

Being liked can get you followers and even fame, but respect makes you money and maintains your credibility. Likeability is great but it doesn't necessarily translate into sustainable benefits UNLESS you're strategic, it's part of your personal brand or you have a “Lorraine Kelly” style focus with your career.

Alexander Ross

Alexander Ross

Gaming, Esports & Interactive Media Writer

Alexander Ross has covered the video game industry for a decade, writing deep dives on game design, esports tournaments, VR developments, and gaming culture.