Why Long Distance Is So Hard?

LDRs require a huge amount of open, straight-forward communication to properly work, and this can often be difficult to manage over the phone. Heck, it's hard to manage in person! It can also be hard to establish boundaries and the right amount of communication if you're doing long distance for the first time.

Why long distance is difficult?

The distance may not make your relationship harder, but it will make it different. Two hard things that couples face in a long-distance relationship is the lack of physical intimacy and distrust. Lack of physical intimacy can lead to cheating, and lack of clear communication can prompt jealousy.

What to do when long distance is getting hard?

  1. Communicate as much (or as little) as you need to feel connected. ...
  2. “Be there” even when you can't actually be there. ...
  3. Remind your partner frequently what you love about your relationship. ...
  4. Forge a secure attachment by supporting each other's interests. ...
  5. Find a way to hang out together while apart.
Elena Rostova

Elena Rostova

Lead Health, Wellness & Medical Journalist

Elena Rostova holds a Master's degree in Public Health Journalism. She covers groundbreaking medical research, holistic wellness trends, mental health awareness, and nutritional science.