Why Would a Guy Go Quiet on You?

Many guys hate failing and feeling inadequate. They often don't have the speed of words to compete with their partner in a conflict. Men's emotional processing capacity is often much slower than their partner. Whilst being silent is a sign of a man's need to process it is also a way to avoid the feelings of defeat.

What does it mean when someone goes quiet?

It can be a fleeting reaction to a situation in which one person feels angry, frustrated, or too overwhelmed to deal with a problem. In these cases, once the heat of the moment passes, so does the silence. The silent treatment can also be part of a broader pattern of control or emotional abuse.

Why do guys act interested then not follow through?

One of the top reasons guys act interested but then disappear is that they think you're not compatible. This doesn't mean anything is wrong with you (or with them). It just means that for some reason, right or wrong, they have decided you're not a good fit.